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LOVE UNARMED

FREE REFLECTION · NO ACCOUNT NEEDED

Start with something ordinary

One moment.
One different choice.

Bring one everyday disagreement. Leave with one small action you can choose.

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See a complete fictional example first
The moment
We changed our weekend plans without talking first.
The story
“My time doesn’t matter.” I don’t know if that was the intention.
The familiar move
I started listing all the other times it had happened: the courtroom.
What matters
Honesty, without making a case about someone’s entire character.
A next action
When we’re both available, I’ll say: “I felt left out when the plans changed. Can we agree to check with each other first?”
What remains outside my control
Whether the other person agrees. I can still decide what boundary I need.

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